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It has been said many times that divorce takes an emotional toll. Very few divorcees are happy about the process.

It hits people's egos, they reflect on times when they were happier and things seemed better and they think about how different life will be moving forward. Many people consider themselves to be failures.

Our Indiana divorce lawyers strive to ensure that your experience isn't as painful and frustrating as it could be. No divorce is going to be painless because it is a tough experience. But the amount of frustration and sadness can be limited.

For those considering an Indiana divorce, there are steps that can be taken to minimize how brutal the divorce process is. That depends on the couple.

Contested divorces -- situations that require litigation from both sides and possibly a trial -- tend to be the most high-stress situations. When spouses are at each other's throats and are jockeying for position on every asset they have, the process can be difficult to bear. When communication is better and there is a realization that a divorce may work out for the better, a collaborative divorce may be in the works.

Whatever the situation, our law firm is dedicated to helping our clients. Our Indiana divorce lawyers recognize that there are implications of divorce beyond who gets the house and who gets the family dog. We are prepared to help you prepare for the future.

A recent Huffington Post article looked at ways to maintain sanity during the divorce process. Remaining grounded at a time when there are so many emotions swirling can be tough, but there are some tips:

For the one initiating the divorce:

• Recognize that you are further along emotionally: The person who has filed for divorce usually has spent a lot of time thinking about it. It's possible their spouse has considered times are rocky, but may not have thought divorce is a good idea. Give them time to process this.


• Rejection is always negative: While married, the spouses may have discussed how things weren't working well, but spouses usually believe things can be worked out. The initial announcement usually will be taken with shock.


• Consider what life will look like: Thinking that life will be the same minus your spouse is naive. Property will be divided, children's needs will be split and you will have to deal with the loss of friends, explaining to family members and other tasks.


• Prepare for conflicting emotions: This is a huge transitional period and you will likely have feelings of loss.


• Allow children at least a year of adjustment: You don't know how they'll react and introducing a new partner too quickly can be painful for the children.

For the non-initiator:

• Your spouse has had time to react: You may wonder how they're better off that you are. Time will heal the wounds.
• Men and women divorce differently: Many men are bottom-line focused and less emotionally attached than women. While women look at the settlement as an indication of worth, men look at the dollars and cents.
• Focus on yourself and try not to think about your spouse: Don't compare who is happier, or who the spouse may be dating. Focus on your children, how to help get you through this time and gain independence.
• Remember your children need you: Even if you're in a bad spot, they need a parent to be there for them. Tell them the future will be better.
• Avoid saying bad things about your ex: Children can have long-lasting bad feelings about one parent if the other speaks ill of them.

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There were nearly 700 fatalities resulting from alcohol-related car accidents in Indiana in 2009. Of these fatalities nearly 250 were merely alcohol-related while more than 200 were the result of drunk drivers. Through the Christmas and New Year holiday, Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) is pushing its Campaign to Eliminate Drunk Driving. This campaign has been going strong since 2006 and in celebration of its fifth anniversary, MADD released a report rating each state on its efforts to reduce the risks of drunk driving traffic accidents. These types of accidents account for a third of all traffic accidents on U.S. roadways. These accidents are completely preventable, too. Unnecessary deaths results from irresponsible driving habits.

"While we've made substantial progress with the Campaign...there is still much work to be done," said MADD National President Jan Withers.

Our Gary drunk driving accident lawyers understand that Indiana was only ranked with two out of five starts in this report. The nation overall received 3 out of 5 stars in its fight against drunk drivers. Our state lacks a number of tools for meaningful progress in fighting drunk driving accidents. In our state, only some judges require ignition interlock devices for first-time DUI offenders, but legislative leadership is needed to require these devices of all drunk drivers. The report also says that our state should enact more penalties on those who are convicted of a DUI when a child is present in the vehicle.

States were ranked on their adoption of the following preventative measures:

-Requiring ignition interlock devices for all those who are convicted of drunk driving.

-Executing sobriety checkpoints.

-Enhancing penalties for drivers who are busted for drunk driving with children in the vehicle.

-Participating in "no-refusal" activities for those who officers suspect of drunk driving.

-Using some sort of Administrative License Revocation for those who have been convicted of a DUI.

Drunk driving accidents cost the nation more than $130 billion each year. These costs include about $70 billion in quality-of-life costs and roughly $60 billion in monetary costs. Local and state governments fork out roughly $3 billion while the federal government hands out almost $5 billion. Employers typically hand out nearly $11 billion. Of the $11 billion, nearly $4 billion related to accidents involving work trips while nearly $10 billion results from accidents that happen outside of work involving employees and benefit-eligible dependents.

During the holiday season, drunk driving car accidents are more common than during any other time of the year. The goal of MADD's campaign is to ultimately to help to stop drunk driving accidents on our roadways. Please be safe through the remainder of 2011 and drive responsibly. If you'll be drinking at a holiday gathering, please arrange a safe and sober way home. You're also asked to keep an eye on your friends and family members to make sure everyone is making a conscious effort to keep our roadways safe through the remainder of the year. Enjoy safe and Happy Holidays!

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The end of the year beings increased risks for serious car accidents in Highland. Thanksgiving is typically Indiana's second deadliest holiday season. Officers responded to more than 40 rural-area accidents, 20 of them involving deer.

Our Indiana car accident attorneys understand that we'll be soon experiencing another wave of increased risks for serious accidents as the end of the year draws near. With Christmas and New Year's upon us, residents across the country will be hitting our roadways in route to their holiday gatherings with friends and family. The increase in traffic leads to an increase in traffic accidents and ultimately an increase in the number of traffic-related injuries and fatalities. Motorists are asked to drive carefully, cautiously and alertly to avoid an accident this holiday season.

Drivers are urged to check out Indiana road traffic on WTHR 13's website before heading out on our roadways. It's wise for drivers to avoid congested roadways and to avoid driving during rush hour, nighttime and weekends. During these times on our roadways, accident risks are increased significantly.

To help ensure a safe arrival to your holiday destination, consider the following safe driving tips:

-Get Your Car Ready: Make sure that your car is serviced and that you're prepared for an unexpected emergency. Always carry a first-aid kit, a torch and a blanket.

-Get Yourself Ready: Make sure you're well rested. Plan out the trip before heading out and share the driving responsibilities. Take regular breaks to avoid driver fatigue.

-If You'll Be Drinking: Never drive after drinking. Plan a safe way to get way home. Have a designated driver or call a cab. If you can't find a driver, find a place to stay. Stay at a friend's house or get a hotel room for the night.

-Buckle In Children: Make sure that all children are placed in the proper child restrain during every car ride.

-Safety For Pets: Make sure your pets are properly restrained as well, for the safety of everyone.

-Towing: Always tow check when you're towing a trailer or a caravan.

-Brush Up: Revamp your driving techniques to avoid an accident through the holidays.

As our roadways get more and more crowded and as we head towards Christmas and New Year's, drivers are urged to be courteous and cautious on our roadways. Spread some holiday cheer and be polite on our roadways. Let's all have a safe and Happy Holiday Season.

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Three were injured in a recent Indiana car accident. The Indiana State Police report that the two-vehicle accident happened around 7:00 a.m. just north of Winslow on S.R. 61.

The accident reports state that a 31-year-old driver was driving along 61 when she lost control of her vehicle because of the black ice. She slid across the roadway and into the path of a truck. The motorists were taken to Deaconess Hospital and to Jasper Memorial Hospital. Officers report that everyone was wearing their seat belt when the accident happened.

Our Gary car accident attorneys understand that drivers face serious risks on our roadways through the Christmas and New Year's holidays. Not only are the roadways crowded with holiday traffic, but motorists are left to deal with the onset of winter weather. To help preserve motorist safety on our roadways, the Indiana Department of Transportation (INDOT) is here to offer some safe winter driving tips for drivers.

Winter Safe Driving: Ice and Snow, Take It Slow:

-Be Prepared: Before leaving your house, know the driving conditions. Check out weather and traffic conditions in the state.

-Clear It Off: Wipe off any snow on your car's brake lights, headlights and windows.

-Check It Out: Examine your car's tires, fluids, hoses, belts and wiper blades to make sure everything's working properly.

-Time It Out: Leave with plenty of time to reach your destination to avoid rushing, aggressive driving or a traffic mishap.

Look Out For Mother Nature:

-The First Snow or Ice: Oftentimes drivers aren't ready for the winter, or driving through it, and forget to slow it down. You're urged to drive below the speed limit and to leave plenty of room between you and other vehicles.

-Black Ice: You may think a road's dry, but it's not. It can actually be very dangerous. Remain alert and slow it down when approaching off-ramps, intersections, off-ramps or bridges as these are all common areas for black ice.

-Limited Visibility: When you can't see too well, slow it down!

-Four-Wheel Drive: When you're driving on ice or snow, it's important to drive slowly and cautiously, no matter what type of vehicle you own. Four-wheel drive may be able to get you going faster, but it's not going to help you stop any sooner.

Caution Around Snowplows:

-Give 'Em Room: These snow-removal vehicles are wide and can occupy several lanes of traffic. Never try to pass and never tailgate.

-Slow It Down: These vehicles travel slower than the posted speed limit. Give them plenty of time.

-Be Visible: These vehicles have a restricted field of vision. You might be able to see them, but they're not always able to see you.

Car accidents are typically more common during the holiday season, adding in winter weather does nothing to reduce these risks. That's why we're asking driver to be cautious and remain alert on our roadways through the remainder of 2011 and well into 2012. Have a safe and Happy Holiday!

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For women considering an Indiana divorce, many will decide to delay until after the holidays.

With planned family gatherings, a possible road trip and other activities, it may make more sense to delay filing for divorce until after the holidays to save some stress and hard feelings that could linger.

Forbes.com recently published a column that gives women some tips on what to do if they are considering divorce but aren't sure what steps to take. Our Indiana divorce lawyers are prepared to help anyone who is considering divorce this time of year. It is a difficult decision and one that must be planned out well. There are many steps of preparation that must be taken when considering this decision.

While divorce represents a major lifestyle change -- taking care of children mostly by oneself or living apart from them for the first time, dwelling in a new place, have less reliance on another person -- there are major financial implications.

Not only do you split assets, you split debts. With the economy so bad right now for much of America, the real estate market depressed and investments and retirement accounts perhaps not as supple as they once were, accommodations must be made. A person must make strong plans to ensure they are able to survive the challenge.

Before you file, take the time to do this preparation. Consulting with an experienced Indiana divorce lawyer should be your first move. Getting as much worked out in advance can make the divorce process much smoother.

Statistics show that January is the month when most divorces are filed, Forbes reports. Making plans for a fresh start in January begin in December. Here are some tips for women who are considering divorce:

Collect your financial documents: Banks, credit-card companies, employers and others will be sending end-of-the-year documents via mail in the coming weeks. Gathering credit card and bank account statements and other financial-related documents is necessary. Make copies and store them in a secure area, possibly with a trusted friend or family member.

Do a credit check: Request a copy of your credit score and monitor it carefully so you will know if anything suspicious comes up. Check to make sure there aren't any strange purchases, such as your spouse buying odd gifts.

Look for an Indiana divorce lawyer: Forbes recommends a team of professionals to help you through your divorce, including a divorce attorney, a divorce financial planner and a counselor/therapist. Interview them and settle on a group that will be able to help you at all angles.

Open new accounts in your name only: Create a bank account and open a credit card account in your name. Choose a new bank, where you aren't currently affiliated. If you have little or no credit on your own, it may be tough, but you'll need to establish credit, so get a plastic card.

Stay vigilant: Be attentive and keep an eye on the family assets and if you're worried your spouse is wasting money or moving it around, consider filing a separate tax return for 2011.

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Indiana was the 32nd state to make text messaging while driving illegal. The law took effect on the 1st of July. Drivers can be fined up to $500 if busted, according to Hands-Free Info. The law was signed by Governor Mitch Daniels back on May 11th and is being used to reduce the risks of distraction-related car accidents in Highland and elsewhere.

"Distraction is still a factor in too many serious crashes. But, the bill signed by Gov. Daniels will help make Indiana roads safer," U.S. Transportation secretary Ray LaHood.

Our "OMG" public service announcement (PSA) campaign. This campaign is being used to warn teenaged drivers about the risks, dangers and consequences of driving and texting.

This campaign will be running through the entire month of December. During this time, two difference PSAs will be shown at Regal Cinema theaters and on gas station pump-top screens. You can also view the PSAs on the Distraction.gov website.

"Teen drivers are particularly vulnerable to distracted driving, which is why we are making an extra effort to ensure they understand," said Transportation Secretary Ray LaHood.

Through this PSA, officials from the USDOT communicate with teenagers by using their short-hand lingo, including "L8R" and "LOL." It's no secret that teenagers like to stay in touch with their friends, but there no safe way to do it while driving.

Greg Dunn, the President of Regal Entertainment Group, says that he is thrilled to be teaming up with the USDOT for the PSA campaign and hopes that their efforts will make a difference by programming the PSAs in our theaters nationwide during this busy holiday season.

So far, 35 states, Guam and the District of Columbia have prohibited drivers from text messaging behind the wheel. Only nine states, the Virgin Islands and the District of Columbia have banned the use of hand-held cell phones use by drivers.

There were nearly 5,500 fatalities resulting from distraction-related accidents in 2009. Another 500,000 were injured during this time in the same types of crashes. Distracted driving car accidents accounted for nearly 20 percent of all fatal accidents during the year. Teenagers are most likely to be involved in a fatal accident where distraction is reported.

Parents are urged to talk with their teen drivers about the importance of alert driving habits. Your conversation could help to save a life on our roadways over the holidays. Have a safe and Happy Holiday and curb the distractions while behind the wheel.

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